Do any of us truly know our parents? The mystery deepens if one
loses a parent during childhood. Andrea Siegel takes us on her journey
to find out more about her father, Joseph Peter Siegel, who died
of leukemia when she was twelve.
She
knew that he grew up in the 1930s and 1940s on Manhattan's Upper
West Side and attended Ethical Culture schools. He graduated from
Colgate University with a philosophy degree. After serving in the
Air Force, he began his career on Wall Street. In 1958, he married
her mother and raised three children, of which she was the second.
What else was he beyond this resume?
Andrea
remembers the aroma of percolating coffee and the fried eggs he
cooked for Sunday breakfasts. The feel of the threads of his prayer
shawl as she braided and unbraided them during High Holy Day services.
His short brown-black hair against a crisp white shirt with a dark
silk necktie. The sting of his shaving cream when he dabbed it on
the end of her nose. And the smell of chemotherapy coming off his
body like fog.
To
connect her childhood memories with the context of his entire life's
reach, Andrea contacted her father's friends, co-workers, military
buddies, former girlfriends, fellow Little League coaches, and his
entire high school graduating class. Rich with the anecdotes that
naturally collect around a man, Snapshots
From The Heart is the outcome of these gathered stories.